The lessons that I have learnt this week:
· It’s ok to admit that you were wrong and to be the first to apologise.
· I am better off without the person who pretends to be my friend.
LESSON 1
It’s ok to admit that you were wrong and to be the first to apologise.
We haven’t spoken for over 2 years but I woke up on Thursday morning and I just knew that I had to contact you. I needed to tell you that I was sorry for acting like a crazy bitch all those years ago. I needed you to know how sorry I was about everything that happened between us. I needed you to know that I don’t hate you and that I could never hate you. I don’t expect you to reply but you knowing how sorry I am feels as though a great weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I finally feel at peace for the first time in a long time.
LESSON 2
I am better off without the person who pretends to be my friend.
I feel as though I have been betrayed by someone who I thought was a really good friend. I found out a little while ago that this person had slagged me off behind my back and it really hurt. I didn’t say anything to her. I don’t like confrontation and I didn’t think it would bother me as much as it is. Over the last couple of weeks other things have happened and been said and I have now come to realize that this person isn’t actually a friend. It hurts a great deal because I trusted her but I am glad that I now know where I stand. I also know that I am free to choose what kind of people I have in my life and that this is definitely the kind that I don’t want.
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